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Best Tips Ever on How to Write Your Own Vows


Do you and your significant other want to write your own vows but don't know where to start? We've found a few tips that might be really helpful!


BE YOURSELF.

Keep your vows personal, stay true to who you are. Don't pretend to be something you're not! If you're funny, use a little humor! If you're emotional don't be afraid to show it. Don't worry about impressing the audience, your vows are only for you and your spouse.

EMPTY YOUR HEART.

Try carrying around a notebook during your engagement to take notes of the things you love most about your significant other. By the end of your engagement you'll notice you have a notebook filled with inspiration to start writing those seriously sweet vows.

WRITE IT DOWN.

To have them memorized might seem sweet but that could put way to much pressure on you during your big day. If you write them down you will be able to keep them forever.


FIND INSPIRATION.

Books, poems, and quotes are great places to look for inspiration. Listen to wedding videos and even try reading other people's vows to get ideas.

ASK FOR ADVICE.

Consider asking a few of your most trusted married couples for one piece of marriage advice to add something to your vows you might not have thought about yet.

CONSIDER YOUR AUDIENCE.

Try to avoid over sharing or saying something that could be potentially embarrassing.

PRACTICE.

This is more important than you think - practice, practice, practice. The last thing you want to do is fumble over your own words, and the easiest way to prevent this is to rehearse!


MAKE PROMISES YOU'LL KEEP.

These are words meant to last forever, so only make promises you intend on keeping.

EMBRACE YOUR EMOTIONS.

You will most probably cry and that's okay! Some of the sweetest ceremonies are the ones where the couple can't help but tear up!

KEEPSAKES.

Once you've written your vows, consider having them made into a keepsake. Try searching Pinterest for great ideas on ways to display your vows forever!


Thank you for reading & feel free to comment below and let us know know if these tricks were useful!


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